did i spell accommodation wrongly? it looks kinda strange...
anyway, during training this week, we talked abt sth quite interesting. Not sure how many of you are familiar with the behavior profiling tool, DISC. u can easy do one online.
Anyway, we were watching this video, HOw to handle difficult ppl, and the host present a nifty idea.
Most of our partners are entirely different from us. That goes to say, Ds are good match with Ss. And Is with Cs. Opposites attract, because our antics attracts/completes ppl who dont have the traits. Although ph are welltrained in DISC, we didnt know abt this interesting fact. we begin to quote our personal experiences, like who-who's gf, is a I and if the bf is a C. Turns out rather true ?
Personally, super stinky mr red is a D. and i am a S dominant.
So u may think, opposites attract , why do some marriages end after time? Do partners become less attractive?
The thing is, opposite personality attracts and completes us, but at the same time, we must realise that they are still Opposites and not Similar. There arises some conflicts, and both parties have to accommodate to each other.
Hmm, it's like .......... for instance, I am a slow decision maker, and tend to value ppl more than task. and mr stinky red is more task oriented, then ppl oriented. so usually, he will set out what to do, when to do, where to do, while i can be happily socializing. haha. it takes the 'stress' of deciding what to do with him.
eg.
red: today we eat in school ok?
me: orh ok anything. today, mommy tell me ... blah blah blah.
but that again, sometimes i will talk so much, that it get him all confused and irritated.
eg.
red: today we eat in school ok?
me: orh ok anything. hmm what abt the restaurant across the road?
red: ok we go there.
me: but that restaurant is quite ex. we eat at my place?
red: hmm.. orh.
me: but if we go to my place, its inconvenient for you. we eat at raffles city larh.
red: ...... *simmering irritation*
me: *opps*
red: ok. we eat at raffles city.
me: heee .. alright !!
